When I was little birthdays meant a decorated chair, ice cream for breakfast. and cupcakes for my classroom at school. As I got older, toys gave way to more practical presents, like electric typewriters. Yes, I'm old enough that I actually used a typewriter to type my papers for school. That particular typewriter helped me earn extra spending money during college by typing papers for others.
I got carded for the first time on my 19th birthday. At that point in time, 19 was the legal drinking age in Minnesota. The next year found me in Illinois, where the drinking age was raised from 18 to 21 right before my birthday. The year after that my friends threw me a major party that was memorialized in the yearbook (how many college students can you fit on a twin bed?).
For my 33rd birthday Brian and I spent a long weekend in Newport, RI. Dad had died the previous November, his mother three weeks after that, and I needed to get away. I spent my 34th birthday sitting at LaGuardia Airport waiting for a flight to Nashville that never left because of a snowstorm.
The big 4-0 resulted in a party planned by a friend that turned out to be more for her birthday than mine. For the last five years or so, a small group of us gets together and plans some sort of surprise day trip or special dinner for each birthday. Last year, for my 50th, they worked with Mom to plan a big celebration. This year, we'll be doing a combined Christmas, Hanukkah, Solstice, Birthday party later in the month. We just couldn't find a mutually convenient date in December for the holiday party.
So today, on my 51st birthday, I spent a quiet day at home. I took pictures of snow. I dug out the non-functioning car (yes, I still have to get it into the shop). I took more pictures. I continued hunting for a job. A group of my former colleagues gathered together and called me to sing Happy Birthday with much joy and laughter. And many many friends posted good wishes on my Facebook wall. All in all, not a bad day.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
1-11-11
Or 11-1-11, if you prefer the European method. The first time I remember being aware of dates like this was during the summer I spent in Germany as an exchange student: 7-7-77. That was also the summer Elvis Presley died, and I suddenly became the local Elvis Expert simply because I was the American in Vallendar am Rhein at the time.
So in honor of the date, here are 11 bits of trivia about me. In no particular order. Just for fun.
1. I can fumble my way through conversations with varying degrees of fluency in four languages other than English: French, German, American Sign Language, and Spanish.
2. Being the unofficial family genealogist enabled me to help my niece and two of my nephews with eighth grade history projects.
3. I was a first soprano until I was 15. That made for an interesting 8th grade musical when I sang higher than both the other leads--an alto (female lead) and a baritone (1st male lead).
4. I never intended to stay in Connecticut after I returned from college in the Midwest. Life happens.
5. My favorite Halloween Costume: my junior year of college when four of us dressed up as the Fruit of The Loom guys (I was Leaf). We won first prize in the contest at a local gay bar.
7. I've worked for eight different employers since graduating from college. I've been laid off from all but one of those positions. "It's the economy."
8. I had nine different bosses during the eight-and-one-half years I worked at the Episcopal Church Center.
9. I got my first bicycle when I was 5. Without training wheels. It took me so long to learn how to ride it that the whole neighborhood cheered when I finally managed it. A bicycle was my primary mode of transportation until I was 23.
10. I edited the Rockford College literary magazine, The Feast, my senior year. I don't know how many readers caught on to the fact that we organized it around biblical themes--that's just the way the submissions we received that year worked out.
11. I wrote (and played) a flute descant for "The Wedding Song" for my brother's wedding that was favorably critiqued by professional musicians. (Hey, I had to mention the flute someplace!)
So in honor of the date, here are 11 bits of trivia about me. In no particular order. Just for fun.
1. I can fumble my way through conversations with varying degrees of fluency in four languages other than English: French, German, American Sign Language, and Spanish.
2. Being the unofficial family genealogist enabled me to help my niece and two of my nephews with eighth grade history projects.
3. I was a first soprano until I was 15. That made for an interesting 8th grade musical when I sang higher than both the other leads--an alto (female lead) and a baritone (1st male lead).
4. I never intended to stay in Connecticut after I returned from college in the Midwest. Life happens.

6. My 9th grade yearbook lists Math Whiz under my picture. Little did they know Mom spent hours and hours with me at the kitchen table helping me with my math homework.
8. I had nine different bosses during the eight-and-one-half years I worked at the Episcopal Church Center.
9. I got my first bicycle when I was 5. Without training wheels. It took me so long to learn how to ride it that the whole neighborhood cheered when I finally managed it. A bicycle was my primary mode of transportation until I was 23.
10. I edited the Rockford College literary magazine, The Feast, my senior year. I don't know how many readers caught on to the fact that we organized it around biblical themes--that's just the way the submissions we received that year worked out.
11. I wrote (and played) a flute descant for "The Wedding Song" for my brother's wedding that was favorably critiqued by professional musicians. (Hey, I had to mention the flute someplace!)
Forecasting Snowmageddon Part 3
The Arizona shooting has dropped to third place, or lower, in the news headlines this evening as two storms converge on the Northeast. Our weather experts expect the meeting of the storms dump between 9-13", or even 10-16" on our area. This will be the third major snowstorm in three weeks.
What gives?
It's winter. It gets cold. It snows.
Some years we get a lot of snow, and some years we get very little. It wasn't all that long ago people noted the number of winters with little or no snow. Now they moan that we have too much.
It's winter. It gets cold. It snows.
Get over it. Weather happens. We can't control it. In our urbanized culture, we have forgotten what it means to live with the weather.
It's winter. It gets cold. It snows.
Use a little common sense, and we'll be fine.
What gives?
It's winter. It gets cold. It snows.
Some years we get a lot of snow, and some years we get very little. It wasn't all that long ago people noted the number of winters with little or no snow. Now they moan that we have too much.
It's winter. It gets cold. It snows.
Get over it. Weather happens. We can't control it. In our urbanized culture, we have forgotten what it means to live with the weather.
It's winter. It gets cold. It snows.
Use a little common sense, and we'll be fine.
Thursday, January 6, 2011
This Is Our Neighborhood
Yesterday afternoon I took a break to run a couple of errands. I needed to go to the local CVS and stop at the library. One of the great things about living where I do is that I can walk to just about anything I need in terms of basics.
So I walked.
And I took my camera.
One of the places within walking distance is my church, and I've been wanting to put together a photo essay for the members to show them what's around the church. Today presented me with the opportunity to start it.
After the 1955 floods the City of Norwalk undertook a period of urban renewal. As part of that project, the City bought out Grace Episcopal Church's property. The parish made the decision to remain in the downtown area and bought property a few blocks away where they built their new church.
Over the years the downtown area went through cycles of decline, renewal, and change. The neighborhood is no longer what it was 50 years ago.
Grace Episcopal Church is no longer what it was 50 years ago. The congregation has shrunk drastically in the last 20 years. But the church continues to do some amazing work. We provide homes for three other congregations and meeting space for a number of community organizations and a local symphony. We contribute food to local food pantries and supply emergency funding to families in need.
Very few of our members live close to the church. The congregation seems to have lost touch with the neighborhood. So let me show you our neighborhood--places less than a 15 minute walk from our church.
Even a short walk around the church shows that we are in the middle of a multi-ethnic, multi-lingual, multicultural, and increasingly diverse neighborhood. It also includes a sizable number of homeless citizens.
The question is, how willing are we as a congregation to BE part of this neighborhood?
So I walked.
And I took my camera.
One of the places within walking distance is my church, and I've been wanting to put together a photo essay for the members to show them what's around the church. Today presented me with the opportunity to start it.

Over the years the downtown area went through cycles of decline, renewal, and change. The neighborhood is no longer what it was 50 years ago.
Grace Episcopal Church is no longer what it was 50 years ago. The congregation has shrunk drastically in the last 20 years. But the church continues to do some amazing work. We provide homes for three other congregations and meeting space for a number of community organizations and a local symphony. We contribute food to local food pantries and supply emergency funding to families in need.
Very few of our members live close to the church. The congregation seems to have lost touch with the neighborhood. So let me show you our neighborhood--places less than a 15 minute walk from our church.
Even a short walk around the church shows that we are in the middle of a multi-ethnic, multi-lingual, multicultural, and increasingly diverse neighborhood. It also includes a sizable number of homeless citizens.
The question is, how willing are we as a congregation to BE part of this neighborhood?
Monday, January 3, 2011
New Year, New Look, New Direction
The first work day of 2011 found me tying up some of the last loose ends relating to the end of my position at the Episcopal Church Center. I didn't get them all taken care of because I also needed to make flight reservations for the February NAECED Conference and work on a version of my resume to submit for a job lead. I also spent some time this afternoon pursuing some volunteer opportunities, so I won't spend my days sitting around my apartment.
After supper I started tinkering with this blog. I wanted to get all my sermons from then past few years in one place. I ended up also importing selected posts from my old blog. And as long as I was tinkering, I decided I wanted to freshen up the look of the blog as well. I didn't use the template I really liked because white text on a dark brown background doesn't make for ease of reading. I opted for something simpler and infinitely more readable.
New Direction applies to all of the above. I have no idea where my job search will take me. And I'm still finding my voice for this blog. I may not know where I'm going yet, but one foot in front of the other keeps me moving forward.
Here's to a successful 2011!
After supper I started tinkering with this blog. I wanted to get all my sermons from then past few years in one place. I ended up also importing selected posts from my old blog. And as long as I was tinkering, I decided I wanted to freshen up the look of the blog as well. I didn't use the template I really liked because white text on a dark brown background doesn't make for ease of reading. I opted for something simpler and infinitely more readable.
New Direction applies to all of the above. I have no idea where my job search will take me. And I'm still finding my voice for this blog. I may not know where I'm going yet, but one foot in front of the other keeps me moving forward.
Here's to a successful 2011!
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Advent 3: Our Lady of Guadalupe
Third Sunday of Advent, December 12, 2010
Year A: Canticle 15
Grace Episcopal Church, Norwalk, CT
Loving God, you call us to be your stories in the world. We come before you seeking to be touched by your story. Open our lips to share our stories with one another and to bring comfort, inspiration, joy and laughter to each other. Amen.
The first time I went to Ireland I had to take the bus from Shannon in the center of Western Ireland to Sligo, which is in the Northwest part of the country, to meet my tour group. The trip included a bus change in Galway. As we boarded the bus, a group of nuns got on and sat in front. I didn’t think anything of it until we pulled out of one of the small towns on the route, and the driver announced that our next stop was Knock. I almost fell out of my seat laughing.
Knock is the site of a shrine to Mary, the mother of Jesus, and you’re probably wondering why I found the Shrine of Our Lady of Knock funny. Some years ago the local parish priest managed to push through the approvals and raise the money to build an airport just outside of this small Irish village. Build it in time for a Papal visit. The priest became the laughingstock. Why did this tiny town, shrine or no shrine, need an airport? And Irish folk singer Christie Moore wrote a song about the building of the airport. A bitingly satiric and funny song. I don’t know if the priest lived long enough to see it, but he had the last laugh. The airport at Knock is one of the busiest regional airports in Ireland even without the pilgrims coming to visit the shrine.
The shrine in Knock is a walled complex. As we pulled into town, the bus was just high enough for me to look over the wall and see the church built where several people saw a vision of St. Mary, St. Joseph, St. John the Evangelist, and Christ as the Eucharistic Lamb. The street that runs along the wall, the village’s main street, is lined with souvenir shops. You wouldn’t believe the number of plastic holy water bottles, plastic statues of Mary, plastic rosaries—or maybe you would. Between the tchotchkes and the song, how seriously can you take this kind of thing?
Before my visit to Ireland, the only direct experience I’d had with people who visited a Marian shrine and made devotions to Mary were members of, well, a cult, for lack of a better term. This cult is centered on the so-called Our Lady of the Roses, Mary help of Mothers in Bayside, Queens. These women—and they are mostly women— in their blue berets would show up in Hartford and other places across Connecticut for any legislative hearing or vote and any activity surrounding civil rights legislation for lesbians, gays, and bisexuals. This group was virulently homophobic and cited messages from their Mary to justify it. On the other hand, even the local Archdiocese has found the supposed visions to completely lack authenticity and condemned the group for proclaiming things contrary to Roman Catholic teaching. For the better part of a decade, if I was attending or participating in something to do with the fight for the protection of my civil rights, they were there, too.
Not very positive or favorable experiences when it comes to Mary’s presence in the world.
Of course, most of us of European descent have heard of the more famous shrines of Mary: Lourdes, Fatima, and Medjugorje, to name a few. There’s even one held dear by Anglicans—Our Lady of Walsingham, with a secondary shrine in Ohio, of all places. But I would hazard a guess that most of you hadn’t heard of Our Lady of Guadalupe until Lois arrived here at Grace, and we began our conversations with Iglesia Betania. I hadn’t either, until several years ago when I took a job at the Episcopal Church Center where I worked regularly with individuals, congregations, and dioceses in Province IX, which includes parts of Central and South America and the Caribbean. Why not until then? Because, quite frankly, my involvement with Latin American, specifically Mexican, communities had been fairly limited until then. My first serious boyfriend may have been Mexican and Apache, but given that period in time and his community’s culture, we didn’t have much to do with his family. So we never went to any family celebrations.
So let me tell you another story; this time not one of mine. This is Juan Diego’s story.
Almost 500 years ago, in the Mexican portion of the Spanish empire lived a mestizo, a young man of mixed native and Spanish blood, named Juan Diego. On the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, December 9th, he was on his way to mass in Mexico City and passed Tepeyac Hill—and I’m going to mispronounce the name of the hill throughout because it predates the coming of Spanish to Mexico—he passed the hill where he heard music that sounded a bit like birds singing. He stopped to see where the music was coming from and heard a young woman’s voice calling his name. He climbed the hill and saw at the top a young mestizo woman surrounded by radiant light, the Virgin Mary. She called Juan mi hijo, my son, and told him that she wanted him to be her messenger to the bishop of Mexico City. Her message was that she wanted a church built for her children.
It’s important for you to know a couple of things at this point in the story. Remember, the Spaniards had conquered Mexico not too long before. Unlike the English up here, they were more interested in accumulating wealth. They moved in just enough colonists to govern the area while forcing the native population into a state of near, if not actual, slavery. As with any kind of clash of cultures, children are born of mixed parentage. So it was in Mexico. And those children, the mestizos, were looked down upon and excluded not only by the Spanish but by the Mexicans as well.
So when Juan arrived at the bishop’s residence, before he could even tell his unbelievable story, he had to deal with the fact that he was coming to see a Spanish bishop served by both Spaniards and Mexicans who wanted nothing to do with the likes of Juan Diego. The servants tried to turn him away, but he was persistent and was finally granted an audience with the bishop. At first, the bishop didn’t believe Juan and asked him to come back another day. A discouraged Juan retuned to Tepeyac and asked the Virgin to use someone else more worthy than himself. Sound like anyone else we know? Moses, perhaps? Mary assured him that she had chosen him personally as her ambassador. The next day he returned to the bishop to try again. Still disbelieving, the bishop sent Juan to tell the lady he needed a sign in order to know if she truly was the Virgin Mary. Doubting Thomas, anyone?
When Juan relayed the bishop’s message, Mary told him to return the next day, and she would give him the sign he needed. But when Juan got home, he found his uncle very ill. So instead of returning to see the Virgin, Juan stayed home to care for his uncle. On the morning of December 12th Juan rushed to Mexico City to find a priest to administer the last rites to his uncle. He went around the back of Tepeyac hill in order to avoid Mary, though he thought she would understand. But she met him on the path took and told him that his uncle had already been healed. Later Juan would find out that at that same moment the Virgin had appeared to his uncle, who was immediately restored to health. Mary urged Juan to go to the top of the hill where he would find flowers growing. He did as she asked and was astonished to find so many flowers where there should have been frost. He cut and gathered them in his cloak. Mary arranged them, rolled up his cloak, and told him not to unroll it until he saw the bishop.
Once again, the bishop’s servants gave Juan Diego a hard time, but again, he persisted. When he finally reached the bishop, he told him about his conversation with the Virgin. Then he unrolled his cloak, and the flowers tumbled to the ground. The bishop, Juan, and everyone else in the room were startled by what else was there. On Juan’s cloak appeared an image of Mary as Juan had seen her. The bishop then believed and promised to build the shrine requested by the Virgin.
Juan Diego’s story does not end there. In 2002 Pope John Paul II canonized Juan Diego, making him the first Mexican saint. And his cloak is preserved to this day in la BasÃlica de Santa Maria de Guadalupe in Mexico City. If you get a chance, you can see a copy of this image in the chapel, where the young people of Betania have decorated the altar for the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe. And when you look, I want you to notice something different about the image of the Virgin. Unlike every other apparition of Mary, even throughout Latin America, she isn’t a young white woman. Mary appeared to Juan Diego as a young mestizo woman. She looked like him. And by calling Juan “mi hijo”—my son—she was telling not only Juan, but the whole world, that he and all those like him, the despised mestizos, were her children and children of God. She arrived with a changed appearance to bring a message to a changing world.
So why have I told you these stories, mine and Juan Diego’s? Why are they important to a small Episcopal congregation in Norwalk, Connecticut? For one thing, without stories, there would be no church. Without the stories of the first disciples and first Christians, we would have no sacred story and no Christian community. It was through the retelling of stories that the Gospel spread. And not just stories about Jesus, but also the very personal stories of those early Christians and Christians across the centuries. It is those personal stories that forge community because they help us to get to know each other and understand each others’ faith journeys. They are what help us to forge a community. Here at Grace we are in the midst of forming a new community with the members of Iglesia Betania.
Even with each other we need to keep telling these stories because not everyone has heard them. For instance, we of Grace and many of Betania have not heard Juan Diego’s story because it comes primarily from the Mexican communities. Although that’s changing both here and across Latin America
Now, more than ever, we need to share our stories. We need to learn from each other that we are individuals, not those Anglos, those Islanders, or those Latin Americans. Each of us has something important to bring to this new community. And without telling our stories to each other and then not only telling them to the larger community around us, but then engaging that greater community in shared ministry, without sharing ourselves, how do we bring the face of Jesus, the face of God, to others?
Almighty God, of your saving grace you called Mary of Nazareth to be the mother of your only begotten Son: Inspire us by the same grace to follow her example of bearing God to the world. We pray through Jesus Christ her son our Savior. Amen.
Year A: Canticle 15
Grace Episcopal Church, Norwalk, CT
Loving God, you call us to be your stories in the world. We come before you seeking to be touched by your story. Open our lips to share our stories with one another and to bring comfort, inspiration, joy and laughter to each other. Amen.
The first time I went to Ireland I had to take the bus from Shannon in the center of Western Ireland to Sligo, which is in the Northwest part of the country, to meet my tour group. The trip included a bus change in Galway. As we boarded the bus, a group of nuns got on and sat in front. I didn’t think anything of it until we pulled out of one of the small towns on the route, and the driver announced that our next stop was Knock. I almost fell out of my seat laughing.
Knock is the site of a shrine to Mary, the mother of Jesus, and you’re probably wondering why I found the Shrine of Our Lady of Knock funny. Some years ago the local parish priest managed to push through the approvals and raise the money to build an airport just outside of this small Irish village. Build it in time for a Papal visit. The priest became the laughingstock. Why did this tiny town, shrine or no shrine, need an airport? And Irish folk singer Christie Moore wrote a song about the building of the airport. A bitingly satiric and funny song. I don’t know if the priest lived long enough to see it, but he had the last laugh. The airport at Knock is one of the busiest regional airports in Ireland even without the pilgrims coming to visit the shrine.
The shrine in Knock is a walled complex. As we pulled into town, the bus was just high enough for me to look over the wall and see the church built where several people saw a vision of St. Mary, St. Joseph, St. John the Evangelist, and Christ as the Eucharistic Lamb. The street that runs along the wall, the village’s main street, is lined with souvenir shops. You wouldn’t believe the number of plastic holy water bottles, plastic statues of Mary, plastic rosaries—or maybe you would. Between the tchotchkes and the song, how seriously can you take this kind of thing?
Before my visit to Ireland, the only direct experience I’d had with people who visited a Marian shrine and made devotions to Mary were members of, well, a cult, for lack of a better term. This cult is centered on the so-called Our Lady of the Roses, Mary help of Mothers in Bayside, Queens. These women—and they are mostly women— in their blue berets would show up in Hartford and other places across Connecticut for any legislative hearing or vote and any activity surrounding civil rights legislation for lesbians, gays, and bisexuals. This group was virulently homophobic and cited messages from their Mary to justify it. On the other hand, even the local Archdiocese has found the supposed visions to completely lack authenticity and condemned the group for proclaiming things contrary to Roman Catholic teaching. For the better part of a decade, if I was attending or participating in something to do with the fight for the protection of my civil rights, they were there, too.
Not very positive or favorable experiences when it comes to Mary’s presence in the world.
Of course, most of us of European descent have heard of the more famous shrines of Mary: Lourdes, Fatima, and Medjugorje, to name a few. There’s even one held dear by Anglicans—Our Lady of Walsingham, with a secondary shrine in Ohio, of all places. But I would hazard a guess that most of you hadn’t heard of Our Lady of Guadalupe until Lois arrived here at Grace, and we began our conversations with Iglesia Betania. I hadn’t either, until several years ago when I took a job at the Episcopal Church Center where I worked regularly with individuals, congregations, and dioceses in Province IX, which includes parts of Central and South America and the Caribbean. Why not until then? Because, quite frankly, my involvement with Latin American, specifically Mexican, communities had been fairly limited until then. My first serious boyfriend may have been Mexican and Apache, but given that period in time and his community’s culture, we didn’t have much to do with his family. So we never went to any family celebrations.
So let me tell you another story; this time not one of mine. This is Juan Diego’s story.
Almost 500 years ago, in the Mexican portion of the Spanish empire lived a mestizo, a young man of mixed native and Spanish blood, named Juan Diego. On the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, December 9th, he was on his way to mass in Mexico City and passed Tepeyac Hill—and I’m going to mispronounce the name of the hill throughout because it predates the coming of Spanish to Mexico—he passed the hill where he heard music that sounded a bit like birds singing. He stopped to see where the music was coming from and heard a young woman’s voice calling his name. He climbed the hill and saw at the top a young mestizo woman surrounded by radiant light, the Virgin Mary. She called Juan mi hijo, my son, and told him that she wanted him to be her messenger to the bishop of Mexico City. Her message was that she wanted a church built for her children.
It’s important for you to know a couple of things at this point in the story. Remember, the Spaniards had conquered Mexico not too long before. Unlike the English up here, they were more interested in accumulating wealth. They moved in just enough colonists to govern the area while forcing the native population into a state of near, if not actual, slavery. As with any kind of clash of cultures, children are born of mixed parentage. So it was in Mexico. And those children, the mestizos, were looked down upon and excluded not only by the Spanish but by the Mexicans as well.
So when Juan arrived at the bishop’s residence, before he could even tell his unbelievable story, he had to deal with the fact that he was coming to see a Spanish bishop served by both Spaniards and Mexicans who wanted nothing to do with the likes of Juan Diego. The servants tried to turn him away, but he was persistent and was finally granted an audience with the bishop. At first, the bishop didn’t believe Juan and asked him to come back another day. A discouraged Juan retuned to Tepeyac and asked the Virgin to use someone else more worthy than himself. Sound like anyone else we know? Moses, perhaps? Mary assured him that she had chosen him personally as her ambassador. The next day he returned to the bishop to try again. Still disbelieving, the bishop sent Juan to tell the lady he needed a sign in order to know if she truly was the Virgin Mary. Doubting Thomas, anyone?
When Juan relayed the bishop’s message, Mary told him to return the next day, and she would give him the sign he needed. But when Juan got home, he found his uncle very ill. So instead of returning to see the Virgin, Juan stayed home to care for his uncle. On the morning of December 12th Juan rushed to Mexico City to find a priest to administer the last rites to his uncle. He went around the back of Tepeyac hill in order to avoid Mary, though he thought she would understand. But she met him on the path took and told him that his uncle had already been healed. Later Juan would find out that at that same moment the Virgin had appeared to his uncle, who was immediately restored to health. Mary urged Juan to go to the top of the hill where he would find flowers growing. He did as she asked and was astonished to find so many flowers where there should have been frost. He cut and gathered them in his cloak. Mary arranged them, rolled up his cloak, and told him not to unroll it until he saw the bishop.
Once again, the bishop’s servants gave Juan Diego a hard time, but again, he persisted. When he finally reached the bishop, he told him about his conversation with the Virgin. Then he unrolled his cloak, and the flowers tumbled to the ground. The bishop, Juan, and everyone else in the room were startled by what else was there. On Juan’s cloak appeared an image of Mary as Juan had seen her. The bishop then believed and promised to build the shrine requested by the Virgin.
Juan Diego’s story does not end there. In 2002 Pope John Paul II canonized Juan Diego, making him the first Mexican saint. And his cloak is preserved to this day in la BasÃlica de Santa Maria de Guadalupe in Mexico City. If you get a chance, you can see a copy of this image in the chapel, where the young people of Betania have decorated the altar for the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe. And when you look, I want you to notice something different about the image of the Virgin. Unlike every other apparition of Mary, even throughout Latin America, she isn’t a young white woman. Mary appeared to Juan Diego as a young mestizo woman. She looked like him. And by calling Juan “mi hijo”—my son—she was telling not only Juan, but the whole world, that he and all those like him, the despised mestizos, were her children and children of God. She arrived with a changed appearance to bring a message to a changing world.
So why have I told you these stories, mine and Juan Diego’s? Why are they important to a small Episcopal congregation in Norwalk, Connecticut? For one thing, without stories, there would be no church. Without the stories of the first disciples and first Christians, we would have no sacred story and no Christian community. It was through the retelling of stories that the Gospel spread. And not just stories about Jesus, but also the very personal stories of those early Christians and Christians across the centuries. It is those personal stories that forge community because they help us to get to know each other and understand each others’ faith journeys. They are what help us to forge a community. Here at Grace we are in the midst of forming a new community with the members of Iglesia Betania.
Even with each other we need to keep telling these stories because not everyone has heard them. For instance, we of Grace and many of Betania have not heard Juan Diego’s story because it comes primarily from the Mexican communities. Although that’s changing both here and across Latin America
Now, more than ever, we need to share our stories. We need to learn from each other that we are individuals, not those Anglos, those Islanders, or those Latin Americans. Each of us has something important to bring to this new community. And without telling our stories to each other and then not only telling them to the larger community around us, but then engaging that greater community in shared ministry, without sharing ourselves, how do we bring the face of Jesus, the face of God, to others?
Almighty God, of your saving grace you called Mary of Nazareth to be the mother of your only begotten Son: Inspire us by the same grace to follow her example of bearing God to the world. We pray through Jesus Christ her son our Savior. Amen.
Monday, November 15, 2010
A Weekend Away
I almost didn't go. It felt like too much to pack even for one night away. I know most of that was because I feel like I've been packing and lugging stuff for weeks. And some of it is part of the grieving process about losing my job. But friends were expecting me, and I really was looking forward to seeing them.
So I packed an overnight bag, stopped at Whole Foods to pick up some side dishes, and made the three hour drive to Jamaica Plain in Boston for the Annual Harvest Ball. I got lost getting there. The only reason I had some semblance of an idea of where I was amongst the roundabouts was that a significant portion of the route Mapquest sent me on was the same as when I went up to spend July 4th weekend with friends in another part of Boston. I've never gone into Jamaica Plain from that direction before, but that was the route I was given. Maybe it's time to invest in a GPS.
Since what I brought didn't need to be heated before being served, arriving later than I expected was not a problem. I had plenty of time to fill out a table card for each dish (so people would know what was in them in case of food allergies or dietary needs), change, and chat with friends. I haven't been to the Harvest Ball in a number of years, and the dinner part of the evening has grown. There was more than enough food. Funny how pot lucks usually work out that way.
After dinner we cleared the tables and put the tables and chairs away. Our band for the evening, Spare Parts, played some waltzes before the main part of the evening, which consisted of Victorian era dances. Since the event had been billed as a period evening, many people dressed up. I have nothing from the Victorian era, so I figured my Renaissance garb was a better option than my suit. It was the right choice. I got a lot of compliments on it. There were men in suits and tuxes--both period and modern--and kilts. Quite a few women arrived in elaborate gowns from Victorian period. There's a reason dances were a bit slower then! Even a couple of contra dances most of us are familiar with were done at a slightly slower pace.
The break in the middle of the evening included a pot luck dessert table. Followed by more dancing. Usually, I stick around to help clean up, but friends from the dance community had graciously offered to put me up, and there were children involved. It did, however, give Robin and I a little time to catch up with what's been going on in our lives.
Late Sunday morning I drove out to Milton and didn't get lost because I had excellent directions. There I spent most of the day with my friend Laura and her family. Laura and I, who go back to high school, have been trying to get together for over a year. So long, in fact, that she had a present for my 50th birthday--10 months ago! Since she forgot to get a picture while I was there, I figured I'd post one here for her!
Here's the present

and here's what it was made for!

Of course, it can be used on a lamp, too.
Laura and I spent a lot of time catching up, but she also took time to talk through some things related to my job search. And she is helping me work on my resume. It was a real boost to be able to spend that time with her.
It was a great weekend. I needed to get away, even if only for an overnight. I'm feeling much more positive about things right now. Friends are a good thing!
So I packed an overnight bag, stopped at Whole Foods to pick up some side dishes, and made the three hour drive to Jamaica Plain in Boston for the Annual Harvest Ball. I got lost getting there. The only reason I had some semblance of an idea of where I was amongst the roundabouts was that a significant portion of the route Mapquest sent me on was the same as when I went up to spend July 4th weekend with friends in another part of Boston. I've never gone into Jamaica Plain from that direction before, but that was the route I was given. Maybe it's time to invest in a GPS.
Since what I brought didn't need to be heated before being served, arriving later than I expected was not a problem. I had plenty of time to fill out a table card for each dish (so people would know what was in them in case of food allergies or dietary needs), change, and chat with friends. I haven't been to the Harvest Ball in a number of years, and the dinner part of the evening has grown. There was more than enough food. Funny how pot lucks usually work out that way.
After dinner we cleared the tables and put the tables and chairs away. Our band for the evening, Spare Parts, played some waltzes before the main part of the evening, which consisted of Victorian era dances. Since the event had been billed as a period evening, many people dressed up. I have nothing from the Victorian era, so I figured my Renaissance garb was a better option than my suit. It was the right choice. I got a lot of compliments on it. There were men in suits and tuxes--both period and modern--and kilts. Quite a few women arrived in elaborate gowns from Victorian period. There's a reason dances were a bit slower then! Even a couple of contra dances most of us are familiar with were done at a slightly slower pace.
The break in the middle of the evening included a pot luck dessert table. Followed by more dancing. Usually, I stick around to help clean up, but friends from the dance community had graciously offered to put me up, and there were children involved. It did, however, give Robin and I a little time to catch up with what's been going on in our lives.
Late Sunday morning I drove out to Milton and didn't get lost because I had excellent directions. There I spent most of the day with my friend Laura and her family. Laura and I, who go back to high school, have been trying to get together for over a year. So long, in fact, that she had a present for my 50th birthday--10 months ago! Since she forgot to get a picture while I was there, I figured I'd post one here for her!
Here's the present
and here's what it was made for!
Of course, it can be used on a lamp, too.
Laura and I spent a lot of time catching up, but she also took time to talk through some things related to my job search. And she is helping me work on my resume. It was a real boost to be able to spend that time with her.
It was a great weekend. I needed to get away, even if only for an overnight. I'm feeling much more positive about things right now. Friends are a good thing!
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